Pick Up Artist - 5 Ways To Increase Self Confidence And Approach Women
- By Donald Mckenzie Jr
- Published 04/14/2008
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Almost every aspiring pick up artist knows the importance of confidence. Even before you approach women she can already tell your level of confidence. This article will show all pick up artists a few ways to increase confidence and approach women.
1) Dress to impress.
When it comes to approaching women, fashion plays a major role. Think about this; would a sexy hot woman rather talk to a guy wearing great clothes, or some punk wearing dark, torn, dirty clothing? Just be sure to dress in a way that is great for women to look at, but most importantly, make you feel comfortable. You see, when you feel comfortable, and you know it, the women around you will also notice and"tune in" to your every movement. Most women will not admit it, but they always love a man who wears great clothing.
2) Acquire better grooming habits.
This works in conjunction with the previous tip. Be sure you always smell great and look in excellent groomed condition. Before you even think of approaching a woman, make sure you at least brush your teeth. You will not imagine the number of guys who literally forget to brush and end up "missing out" the entire night. Try to make just a personal daily habit to brush and clean up. This tip may sound petty, but a lot of guys will forget the most basic things and lose out on picking up a great sexy woman. Another thing to keep in mind is that you never know where you will meet a woman.
3) Walk with your head up high.
Posture is one of the most important indicators of self esteem. For instance, a woman will avoid a man walking with their head low and shoulders sagged. She might think he is either depressed, or immature. Remember, sexy women today are looking for men, not little immature boys. One great example to look at is the commercials that the army puts
on television each day. Take notice and you will see the soldiers showing great strength in their posture. If you walk around with a great posture it will help you gain confidence and self awareness. The other guys will actually be jealous of how women look at you. Nothing turns a woman on more than the self confident posture.
4) Maintain a healthier lifestyle.
In order to achieve high confidence and approach women, you will definitely need to be comfortable in your own body. There are countless individuals who are overweight and still pick up gorgeous woman with ease. On the other hand, there are guys who are in top physical condition, but cannot get the same level of success as the other guy. One of the biggest turn offs with women, is guy who is not comfortable with his body. Remember that the women you approach are "sizing" you up. They know you want to spend the night with them. If you are uncomfortable with your body, they will take this not only as one of your character flaws, but also an indication that you will not satisfy them so to speak.
If you happen to be uncomfortable in your body, then you should try to adopt a healthier lifestyle. This does not mean to go out and do super ultimate exercising, or to completely stop eating. Try to change your eating habits and incorporate a little exercising into your schedule. Remember, just one hour of walking per day, can make a big difference over time. Soon enough you will feel excellent in your own body and gain a major confidence boost.
5) Improve eye contact tactics.
This last tip can be the difference between picking up a woman, and going home alone. One of the sexy things women love is sexy eye contact. This does not mean for you to stare at her like a psychopath, but eye contact will help to create a certain comfort level between both of you. If you do not give her eye contact at all, she will think of you as immature and shy, or eve worse, focusing on another woman while talking to her.
1) Dress to impress.
When it comes to approaching women, fashion plays a major role. Think about this; would a sexy hot woman rather talk to a guy wearing great clothes, or some punk wearing dark, torn, dirty clothing? Just be sure to dress in a way that is great for women to look at, but most importantly, make you feel comfortable. You see, when you feel comfortable, and you know it, the women around you will also notice and"tune in" to your every movement. Most women will not admit it, but they always love a man who wears great clothing.
2) Acquire better grooming habits.
This works in conjunction with the previous tip. Be sure you always smell great and look in excellent groomed condition. Before you even think of approaching a woman, make sure you at least brush your teeth. You will not imagine the number of guys who literally forget to brush and end up "missing out" the entire night. Try to make just a personal daily habit to brush and clean up. This tip may sound petty, but a lot of guys will forget the most basic things and lose out on picking up a great sexy woman. Another thing to keep in mind is that you never know where you will meet a woman.
3) Walk with your head up high.
Posture is one of the most important indicators of self esteem. For instance, a woman will avoid a man walking with their head low and shoulders sagged. She might think he is either depressed, or immature. Remember, sexy women today are looking for men, not little immature boys. One great example to look at is the commercials that the army puts
4) Maintain a healthier lifestyle.
In order to achieve high confidence and approach women, you will definitely need to be comfortable in your own body. There are countless individuals who are overweight and still pick up gorgeous woman with ease. On the other hand, there are guys who are in top physical condition, but cannot get the same level of success as the other guy. One of the biggest turn offs with women, is guy who is not comfortable with his body. Remember that the women you approach are "sizing" you up. They know you want to spend the night with them. If you are uncomfortable with your body, they will take this not only as one of your character flaws, but also an indication that you will not satisfy them so to speak.
If you happen to be uncomfortable in your body, then you should try to adopt a healthier lifestyle. This does not mean to go out and do super ultimate exercising, or to completely stop eating. Try to change your eating habits and incorporate a little exercising into your schedule. Remember, just one hour of walking per day, can make a big difference over time. Soon enough you will feel excellent in your own body and gain a major confidence boost.
5) Improve eye contact tactics.
This last tip can be the difference between picking up a woman, and going home alone. One of the sexy things women love is sexy eye contact. This does not mean for you to stare at her like a psychopath, but eye contact will help to create a certain comfort level between both of you. If you do not give her eye contact at all, she will think of you as immature and shy, or eve worse, focusing on another woman while talking to her.
